By Aunty Agony.
Regardless of your gender, in every point in life, one must fully be informed, grasping every memory and utilize their sensuality with such easiness. Ever wondered and wished you were one of those lucky ones who ooze effortless sensuality? When your moves are able to speak louder than your words? We can all agree that it’s about time we look into the few tips and secrets that’ll guide us with that particular someone if need be.
· Do not be afraid to ‘touch’
That ‘touch’ is often the ticket. Not only does it create strong physical connection, but the warmth of your hand on his or vice versa surely will get his mind racing. It could be his/her hand, back, knee, or neck if you’re feeling more daring. It would eventually feel like a natural step and not like you’re suddenly putting the moves on her/him.
· Turn down the volume on your conversation
Turning down the tone of your voice can as well cast a spell. It’s not often what you say but how you say it. People who talk loudly are usually the life of the party, but speaking in a softer, slower way usually switches the turn-on button. It will also create the impression that you don’t want anyone to hear, which shows your importance of privacy and intimacy.
· Take it slow and Sensual
It’s easy to forget to tap down to your natural sensuality. Remind yourself to slow it down and stick to topics that trigger a certain aura. These however, do not include syphilis and sweat patches. They could be about the city’s night life or love for a certain cuisine. Your date will notice the difference, trust me. But remember, everything being done needs to be thoroughly thought through first so as to not appear overly sexual and desperate.
· Smooth talk your way into a kiss
Leaning in for a kiss is one of the largest leaps of faiths. It could either end you and your date’s night with wide genuine smiles or leave you both with dead awkward silences. Strategize your way smoothly, but let it not be too scripted because that would creep the other out or seem like you’re trying too hard. Be playful and charming. Drop occasional hints here and there so that the kiss doesn’t startle your date as much, and give her reason to cancel on the next date.
· Go for the give and take
Seduction is a give and take. It isn’t necessarily up to the guy to make all the moves, ladies should take charge just as much. Seduction should be a slow, sexy exchange, so that when the hook-up finally happens, the build up was already drawn out. Plus, because it was participated by both, feelings are already known to be mutual which limits the rest of the unexpected and unneeded surprises to happen.
These 5 easy steps, if embraced well, will leave your date speechless. And then you won’t have to wonder if he/she will call you the next day, because he/she will. That same night!